How We Say What We Say

Recently, it came to our attention that some of the language on our Dathouse website was either outdated, or in some way misrepresented what we are all about. Language is hard. In a world where we are so connected and have so much information and resources at our fingertips you would think it would be EASIER for us all to understand each other. But, as we’ve all likely experienced in recent years, it actually seems easier than ever to be misunderstood.

We could dismiss it as, "the other" person's problem if they don’t understand or get offended. We never intended to hurt anyone. We're good people, right? But sometimes, perception is reality. Our goal at Dathouse is to constantly be a bridge between neighbors, connecting the dots between strengths and weaknesses. We are all just people; there is no "other". When one of us is hurting, we strive to go the extra mile to listen to neighbors and communicate in a way that is understandable and accessible to all.

As a community who wrestles with topics of faith, politics, mental health, community issues, etc constantly, it’s more important than ever for us to be good listeners and communicators. This is how Dathouse was founded, and this is still a core value we hold intensely. We are constantly trying to improve. So, if you see us around, ask us questions; share opinions; we’re all ears. And while you’re here at our website, take a look around and let us know what you think! We’ve dug through it and tried to make it reflect who we are and what we are about in the best language we can!

Our mission is to be a leader and catalyst in fostering a healthy community. And we can’t do that if we can’t listen, truly value opinions, and work together towards the common good for all.

Bethany Friesen